Endings and New Beginnings - Adventure Year Week 28

posted on: December 25, 2019



The video above is a few moments of listening to the noon playing of the carillon inside the Kirk in the Hills Church in Bloomfield Hills, MI.  It's the church Alex and I were married in and in a moment of running around the Detroit metro area, I wanted a moment to step inside and just surrender and be still with the sound of the bells.  The week before Christmas can be such a hustle of activity that we often forget to just take a moment and be at peace in stillness.




This holiday week was one of endings and new beginnings for several of my family members.  For my mom, we celebrated her retirement from being the director of the Cromaine Library after 12 years of innovating the library services, programs, and updating the space for the community.  She has been largely recognized in the community, and will be venturing out on her own adventure year soon in order to remember who she is when she's not playing the role of the community library director.  You'll definitely see her appearing multiple times on my blog and in my instagram feed in the year ahead because she's invited me to join her on a lot of her travels!!  Apparently I make for a good travel companion, and thankfully, we enjoy spending time together. ;-)




As for new beginnings, my brother-in-law recently became engaged, a board certified cardiologist, and a fellow at the Cleveland Clinic!  We headed into Cleveland to see the fantastic view from his new apartment, explore downtown Cleveland's night life, and enjoy an afternoon of music at Severance Hall.




Something that was a first for us this year was participating in the Akron Tuba Christmas at the University of Akron! This was quite an event with over 500 low brass instrumentalists on stage!!  Since Alex plays french horn and his brother plays trombone, they took a shot at getting as many notes as they could on euphoniums that they borrowed for the event.  If you have not heard of this or attended, it was highly entertaining and I'd definitely recommend making it part of your holiday traditions- even if you aren't a low-brass player or enthusiast.  It was just a fun family community music event with plenty of opportunities for the audience to sing-along.  Scroll through the videos and images to hear and see more!




In one last Auntie-Anne and Uncle-Alex move in Michigan, we treated our nephews to a fun afternoon and evening exploring all of the holiday events and activities in downtown Detroit, which was a first for them during the holidays.



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And as I consider my own endings and beginnings this year, I take to heart the words of Emma Goldman and Ari Weinzweig, who both sought to challenge the norms by thinking freely and shaking up the processes that other people assumed were the only way.


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“Anne, Think free, make a difference! Ari 2019” Thanks Ari Weinzweig- I’m doing my best! Here’s how this is true for me in this moment... some days I want the simplicity of focusing in one direction, but I am such a multi-passionate person that every time I have tried to have a singular focus, it has often squashed my creative free-thinking instincts and unique ways of serving the world. I am deeply passionate about my work in creative business industries as well as in the healing/intuitive realm. I serve clients in both spaces and find it easy to move between these different ways of being. One is very strategic and one is very intuitive, but both require my unique life experiences, sensitive awareness, and keen powers of observation. No matter how many ways I simplify, it seems my life continues to be a living experiment in how to find success and balance as a multi-passionate person. How to divide my time and energy between various passions without being overwhelmed or under-resourced. How to live on the edge of possibilities while being firmly grounded in my value and truth. How to navigate a life untethered by traditional work structures and systems. I continue to be a living work-in-progress of exploring all the possibilities that life can offer while constantly fighting the urge to shrink into doing only what is simple or easy. If we lack passion or interest in our work, I believe it is because we have stopped learning, growing, and changing. We lose passion when things become too routine or predictable. That’s not to say there isn’t a time in life when we need that kind of ease and simplicity- especially when our life outside of work feels chaotic and changing- but if we want to be happy with our work, we need to find our way to the edge of our comfort zone and continue to stretch into the unknown and unexplored. I’m grateful for all the supportive people and structures that contribute to me feeling grounded while being able to stretch myself into new realms. Even as it may seem I do this all alone, please know that it is far easier because of the people who believe in me even when I am unsure of myself. ❤️🙏
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Emotional Moment: Dancing with Dad

posted on: March 1, 2013

I was going through previous weddings I'd photographed to prepare for a my next portfolio update and remembered what a beautiful moment this was.  Rochelle's take on this moment is priceless: "This photo below is a double goody because [dad] is smiling and dancing. We don’t really have any photos of my dad smiling. ….or dancing and now we have him doing both in one shot!"

Dancing with Dad at Jamaican Wedding

See more from Rochelle & Alex's Jamaican Flavor Belle Isle Wedding

Huffington Post- Thanks for the Love!

posted on: April 5, 2012

I fully admit to checking my website statistics and analytics at least once a day. I like knowing where people are coming from and where they're choosing to go once they see my work. You can imagine my surprise, when one day I start seeing my statistics literally FLOODED with Huffington Post links in to my blog. Dude, someone at the HuffPost dug my work enough to link to it?! To me, that's about as awesome as if I were sitting across the desk from Ira Glass or John Stewart for an interview. What didn't surprise me, was the post they were linking to after I noticed their feature was about Iconic and Offbeat Detroit Wedding Venues.


I didn't notice any of my actual images featured in the article- they used flickr images that allowed creative commons use and had no watermarks... which may be how I was discovered and is exactly why I always put my watermark on my online work so that people will contact me before using images of my clients. However, the fabulous writer, Kate Abbey-Lambertz did something even BETTER than using my images by linking directly to my entire blog post of Mary & Matt's Detroit Public Library Wedding. (Kate, I forgive you for misspelling my first name- and I thank you, so that the Huffington Post google rank doesn't out-power my own personal website in searches for my name!! I love your articles on Detroit!)


Mary & Matt's wedding has been one of the most popular Detroit weddings on my blog because of its unique location and probably because I'm one of the only photographers who has been able to photograph a wedding there! I got lucky because Mary's parents pulled a LOT of strings to make that wedding happen AT the library. It's such a beautiful venue that I hope they make it more accessible for weddings to support its ongoing preservation and restoration. It's a gem in Detroit's history and architecture, so I'm happy that at least I can share a little of its beauty within the context of a beautiful wedding day. Mary is a Wedding Photographer in Western New York who takes beautiful & fun images as well- so I'm very honored that she chose me for her wedding day. ;-)


If you live in the Detroit area and are up for a Mission Impossible adventure... you might be able to sneak out of the window on the second floor like I did for this image (at your own risk of course), to see some GORGEOUS hidden tile work on the inside of the small archway above the windows. It just amazes me that they put that much thought and detail into something only window washers may ever see.

Belly Dancing in Art Deco Detroit

posted on: October 13, 2010

Meet Krystal, my step-sister, and an incredibly creative spirit. Once I had seen her in full belly dancing costume, I just knew I had to do a creative shoot with her handcrafted fashions set against the gorgeous Art Deco architecture of downtown Detroit. Here are a few of my favorites from our creative collaboration...
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And just in case you thought she was always serious... here are a couple out-takes from some in-between moments...
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I'm always up for a creative collaboration, and if I love your concept, I might even do it just for the fun of it!!

An Olive Branch of Happy Pretty Pictures

posted on: December 16, 2008

I know I have some blog fans out there who are wondering if I shot any weddings this year or not?! YES!! I just haven't had time to blog them all!! I put a lot of work into my wedding blog posts, and I'd rather take the time to make it amazing than just put up something just for the sake of speed. It takes me pretty much an entire day to create a blog post for a wedding, yet writing a post about my favorite things or tips for brides is usually takes me less than an hour. So- to save time while taking care of holiday orders and trying to get everyone online before year's end, hopefully you can see why I've been blogging about everything other than my weddings lately!!

This has been a VERY busy and very EXCITING year!! I'll be sharing more about what happened this year in my year end recap- the good and the bad just as I've done in the past, but for now, I know some people just want to see pretty pictures, so here are just a few of the gorgeous brides I've worked with this year!! (If you're on Facebook, you've probably seen these already. ;-)) There were soo many!! Most of these are posed images that I happen to have easy access to right now while several of my hard drives are backing up before I leave for the holidays... which I still need to pack for!! EEK!! The juicy wedding details and moments will come later on. ;-) For now, I offer you some pretty posed pictures (and just a few great moments)!

From Shanon & Kayu's Wedding in Ann Arbor, MI:

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From Jennifer & Justin's Wedding in Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada:

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From Emily & Aaron's Wedding in Indianapolis, IN:

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From Kat & Dave's Wedding in Joliet, IL:

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From Mary & Jarod's Wedding in Detroit, MI:

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First Wedding Dance, Elegant Reception Decor w/ lush flowers

Elegant Bride & Groom Cake & Champagne

Chaldean Father & Daughter Dance

Mary & Jarod First Dance

So, if you look at the locations of all those weddings, you'll notice that they are in completely different places around the country and OUT of the country - and there were even more locations I went to this year, which has kept me very, very, very busy. More about that later. For now I hope you can just appreciate that I really am a working photographer who is just trying to make her clients happy behind the scenes, which might mean making posting everything to the blog a lower priority for now- I promise I'll make up for it after I've been able to get my clients taken care of!! HUGS & HOT COCOA!!

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