A Very Missouri Christmas - Adventure Year Week 29

posted on: January 2, 2020

Do you have any hometown favorite foods that you must have when you "go home" for the holidays?  Even though I didn't grow up in Missouri, I've now spent over 16 holiday seasons here with my in-laws and the thing I look forward to each holiday after landing in Kansas City, is Topsy's Popcorn.  This year I craved it even more, since it's hard to get really good cheese or caramel popcorn in  China - and the Red Hot popcorn is something that's hard to find nearly anywhere else!



This year we scheduled an extra special visit by arriving with bells, hats, and a song to Uncle Steve's house shortly after picking up siblings from the airport.  The surprise was well-received and brought a little extra joy and family connection on Christmas Day.


Something that surprised me this year was that both of my in-law families enjoyed the most basic holiday gifts like an onion chopper and toilet bowl cleaner. :-D





Nearly every year we have a day spent in Kansas City with the family, and this time we spent it between the Strawberry Hill Museum, unlimited crab brunch at JAX Fish House, and McCormick & Shmicks for the famous Chocolate Bag dessert.






After a couple days of getting cozy and sharing gifts in small town Missouri, we then headed out to St. Louis to spend time with our Aunt and explore all of the brand new developments downtown at St Louis Union Station, which has been turned into a family amusement park, aquarium, and hotel!

What a massive development undertaking!  We rode The St Louis Wheel, had dinner at the Train Shed while watching the fire show over the pond, and then caught a glimpse of the holiday projection show on the ceiling of the Grand Hall during a Polar Express dinner event with families dining out in their pajamas (which we happened to encounter, but not partake in.)



On our final day of 2019, we explored the new St Louis Gateway Arch Museum (free without going into the arch itself), and settled into some ancestry research on our computers at the Protagonist Cafe in the Soulard Community, before lunching in The Hill at Anthonino's for some St. Louis style provel covered pizza.




It felt good to end 2019 feeling so full of love after spending time with family, and so fulfilled after an amazing year of adventures and travels.  As I looked back on the year, I have to say it was nothing like what I thought it might be, but even better than I could have imagined!




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Looking back at 2019: Sharing a photo (or ten) nearly every day of the year along with some description of what I was thinking really helps me reflect on what the year was about and what kind of milestones or progress I had as the earth begins another journey around the sun. This year felt like the earth has been spinning faster than I am, and I’m often just trying to hold on and see what I can while not being tossed off into outer space. Here are some of the highlights: 🌏 More world travels with people I love 🌟 Greater intuitive clarity and lightness of energy 📖 Published Pricing Workbook for Creatives 👣 Deepened Swedish ancestral documentation 🛎 Himalayan Healing Bowl Certification 🏍 Learning to Ride a Motorbike in Bali 🏮 Japan Reiki Adventures & New Friends 🛩 Experiencing Comfy Business Class Seats ⛲️16th Wedding Anniversary in Singapore 🏔 Midsummer on a Minesweeper in Norway I also worked through some darkness that I didn’t realize I still held within me, especially around feelings of isolation, separation, and learning how to take advantage of the space that comes from not yet knowing what’s next. The inner work on my own darkness continues to lead to greater lightness once worked through- which is the hidden story in all of the positive moments I tend to share. Overall- this life continues to exceed anything I’ve ever conceived of- I just keep showing up to see what happens next!!
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Endings and New Beginnings - Adventure Year Week 28

posted on: December 25, 2019



The video above is a few moments of listening to the noon playing of the carillon inside the Kirk in the Hills Church in Bloomfield Hills, MI.  It's the church Alex and I were married in and in a moment of running around the Detroit metro area, I wanted a moment to step inside and just surrender and be still with the sound of the bells.  The week before Christmas can be such a hustle of activity that we often forget to just take a moment and be at peace in stillness.




This holiday week was one of endings and new beginnings for several of my family members.  For my mom, we celebrated her retirement from being the director of the Cromaine Library after 12 years of innovating the library services, programs, and updating the space for the community.  She has been largely recognized in the community, and will be venturing out on her own adventure year soon in order to remember who she is when she's not playing the role of the community library director.  You'll definitely see her appearing multiple times on my blog and in my instagram feed in the year ahead because she's invited me to join her on a lot of her travels!!  Apparently I make for a good travel companion, and thankfully, we enjoy spending time together. ;-)




As for new beginnings, my brother-in-law recently became engaged, a board certified cardiologist, and a fellow at the Cleveland Clinic!  We headed into Cleveland to see the fantastic view from his new apartment, explore downtown Cleveland's night life, and enjoy an afternoon of music at Severance Hall.




Something that was a first for us this year was participating in the Akron Tuba Christmas at the University of Akron! This was quite an event with over 500 low brass instrumentalists on stage!!  Since Alex plays french horn and his brother plays trombone, they took a shot at getting as many notes as they could on euphoniums that they borrowed for the event.  If you have not heard of this or attended, it was highly entertaining and I'd definitely recommend making it part of your holiday traditions- even if you aren't a low-brass player or enthusiast.  It was just a fun family community music event with plenty of opportunities for the audience to sing-along.  Scroll through the videos and images to hear and see more!




In one last Auntie-Anne and Uncle-Alex move in Michigan, we treated our nephews to a fun afternoon and evening exploring all of the holiday events and activities in downtown Detroit, which was a first for them during the holidays.



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And as I consider my own endings and beginnings this year, I take to heart the words of Emma Goldman and Ari Weinzweig, who both sought to challenge the norms by thinking freely and shaking up the processes that other people assumed were the only way.


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“Anne, Think free, make a difference! Ari 2019” Thanks Ari Weinzweig- I’m doing my best! Here’s how this is true for me in this moment... some days I want the simplicity of focusing in one direction, but I am such a multi-passionate person that every time I have tried to have a singular focus, it has often squashed my creative free-thinking instincts and unique ways of serving the world. I am deeply passionate about my work in creative business industries as well as in the healing/intuitive realm. I serve clients in both spaces and find it easy to move between these different ways of being. One is very strategic and one is very intuitive, but both require my unique life experiences, sensitive awareness, and keen powers of observation. No matter how many ways I simplify, it seems my life continues to be a living experiment in how to find success and balance as a multi-passionate person. How to divide my time and energy between various passions without being overwhelmed or under-resourced. How to live on the edge of possibilities while being firmly grounded in my value and truth. How to navigate a life untethered by traditional work structures and systems. I continue to be a living work-in-progress of exploring all the possibilities that life can offer while constantly fighting the urge to shrink into doing only what is simple or easy. If we lack passion or interest in our work, I believe it is because we have stopped learning, growing, and changing. We lose passion when things become too routine or predictable. That’s not to say there isn’t a time in life when we need that kind of ease and simplicity- especially when our life outside of work feels chaotic and changing- but if we want to be happy with our work, we need to find our way to the edge of our comfort zone and continue to stretch into the unknown and unexplored. I’m grateful for all the supportive people and structures that contribute to me feeling grounded while being able to stretch myself into new realms. Even as it may seem I do this all alone, please know that it is far easier because of the people who believe in me even when I am unsure of myself. ❤️🙏
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